Coping with Illness and Dying
When we’re sick and full of
woes
And fighting our despair,
Will we think of better times –
And burdens better bear?
Or will such memories be lost –
Or if remembered, then
Be yet more grief, because we
know
We won’t be well again?
Some bear a grievous illness
lightly,
Others groan at colds.
A patient’s truly patient,
while
Another only scolds.
We see a woman, ailing, tend
Her husband, though she sinks –
And still, her spouse yet more
demands –
And of her, rarely thinks...
How easy it might be to judge
Another, yet we know
That there are depths we
cannot plumb,
Beneath the storms that blow.
And yet, it’s true – that
qualities
We nurture, over years,
Express themselves, for all to
see,
When mortal ending nears.
2013 December 29th,
Sun., 6:08 pm
2nd floor, McDonald’s
Restaurant
86th Street and 20th
Avenue
Bensonhurst, Brooklyn
I loved this poem, as I have loved, and found myself enchanted by, all your beautiful poetry.
ReplyDeleteArjun, you are a brilliant talented person ; an intelligent knowledgeable person whom I also find very friendly honest and forthright. You have made my life more meaningful inerestng and pleasent; a good friend.
Keep your poetic thoughts and feelings coming!
Happy New Year to you , your lovely wife, Weisin, and all your fine families. You all stay well!
Fondly
Your friend,
Jim Kramer
Thanks Jim -- if only I deserved all that praise! The school job sets me straight on that. ;-) Best wishes for the holidays and the new year for you, Dina, Ken, Helene and the others from Wai-Sin and myself.
ReplyDeleteAs usual a great job. But are your writing poetry in MacDonalds?
ReplyDeleteYou are supposed to be looking through a window at great scenery while doing so.
Yvonne Forde
Hi Yvonne,
ReplyDeleteI have found the 2nd floor there to be a relatively peaceful place in which to do all my homework checking and much else, job-related, on weekends and holidays. I do get, at times, to see some scenery,including living scenery, although it's urban -- the elevated D train station with travelers going up and down the stairs,and the streets below. Then there are the customers, including my past or current students. Best wishes for the new year!